More Than Talk Therapy for Thousands of Clients Since 2000

Offering seasoned, mature psychologists and therapists who provide advanced, state-of-the-art therapy and emotional processing methods, collaborative couples therapy, personal consulting as well as traditional therapies. Experience truly Personal, Quality Care - And begin closing the space between who you experience yourself as today and who you sense your potential could be tomorrow.


Assisting Our Clients With

• Personal Consultation 
• Depression
• Self-Esteem
• Family
• Traumatic Events
• Stress
• Reproductive Psychology
• Anxiety, Worry
• Marriage
• Sex Therapy
• Life Transitions
• Grief / Loss
• Addictions
(incl sex, internet, gambling)
• Abuse
(emotional, physical, sexual)
• Relationships
• Health & Sleep
• Menopause
• Eating Disorders
• Spiritual / Meaning

State-of-the-Art Therapies (read more...)

An advanced therapy method designed to quickly release trauma, anxiety, depression, anger and other strong emotional states from the body while bringing insight into their causes and a sense of grounding, calm and security.

  • Brainspotting (eye position, deep emotional release therapy)
  • Somatic Processing (deep emotional release therapy)
  • Bilateral Stimulation (alternating soothing sounds between opposite sides of the brain to enhance access to deep, emotionally laden experience and memory)
  • Convergence Therapy (eye movement therapy to induce calm states)
  • Mindfulness (developing complete awareness of the present moment within you and around you to create peace, acceptance,clarity of thought, improved outlook, positive moods and reduced anxiety)

Collaborative Couple’s Therapy

One therapist works with one partner while a second therapist works with the second partner. The therapists consult with each other after each meeting (with your consent) to guide therapy toward coordinated goals for each individual partner and for the relationship. Couple’s therapy is then provided when both partners are ready. A similar process is helpful for mother/daughter, father/son or other dyads within a family or organization.

Reproductive and Sexual Psychology

  • Sex Therapy
  • Sexual Wellness
  • Reproductive Psychology
  • Infertility Care
  • Gamete Donation
  • Third-Party Reproduction Consultations and Evaluations
  • Perinatal Mood Disorders
  • Perinatal Anxiety Disorders
  • Pregnancy
  • Infant Loss
  • Birth Trauma
  • Adjustment to Parenthood
  • Complex and Alternative Relationship Dynamics

Traditional Talk Therapies

  • Psychodynamic (resolution of original family issues)
  • Interpersonal (relationship development therapy)
  • Traditional Couples Therapy (one expert therapist, one couple) 
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (resolving emotional pain and conflict)
  • Cognitive (thought oriented therapy)
  • Behavioral (behavior oriented therapy)
  • Motivational (addictions oriented therapy)
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) (for emotion regulation, behavior control)



Addictions Center

  • Alcohol, Cocaine, Opioids, Marijuana
  • Gambling
  • Internet: Pornography, sex, shopping, obsessive internet use/dependence
  • Relapse Prevention

Discernment Counseling

Discernment counseling is a therapeutic approach designed to help couples who are seriously contemplating divorce. 

  • Geared toward “mixed agenda” couples—one person is leaning out of the relationship and the other is leaning in.
  • Limited to only one to five sessions—brief!
  • Focused on individual conversations to gain a deeper understanding of what’s happened to the relationship and each person’s contribution to the problems.
  • Committed to the goal of helping each couple develop clarity and confidence about a future path for their marriage.  
      • Path one is the status quo—the relationship as it has been.
      • Path two is separation/divorce.
      • Path three is a six-month commitment to couples therapy with divorce off the table, after which they can decide whether to stay or leave.


Psychological Testing & Assessment

These services are designed to provide clients and parents a detailed understanding of relevant personality, social, intellectual, cognitive and other functioning. Testing will also provide an accurate diagnostic profile, clarity for treatment planning purposes, and relevant recommendations. Individuals desiring testing are either self-referred or referred by another professional, such as a physician, counselor, family member, school, attorney, or court system.

  • Full range of testing services for children and adults
  • Comprehensive psychological evaluations
  • Divorce related, child custody evaluations.
  • Forensic court-related evaluations
  • School-referred evaluations
  • Attention-deficit and behavior disorders evaluations
  • Neuropsychological evaluations
  • Intelligence and achievement evaluations


Child/Adolescent Therapy

We evaluate complex presenting situations for ages 4-17 involving:

  • Behavior problems
  • Peer relationships
  • Depression, anxiety, anger
  • Adjusting to divorce, trauma, loss, and more
  • Developmental: Sleep issues, potty training and more.

Therapies are uniquely tailored and include individual therapeutic strategies, interventions to strengthen parent-child relations, provision of parental support and others. We use art, play, family, motivational, cognitive, behavioral therapies.


  • Accelerate your own natural healing process.
  • Make peace with your past.
  • Utilize your subconscious resources for daily life
  • Focus your intent to accelerate successful change.
  • Free your mind from limiting ideas.
  • Restorative relaxation, stress relief, pain management

Hypnotherapy gently guides the client through subconsciously held beliefs so that they can be modified, deleted or replaced. You can then begin to utilize your energy for achieving personal success and greater health, and for rediscovering the joy of life.

Why We Do This Work - Since 2000

With many paths from which to choose, there is an ultimate journey for each of us. Every path will undoubtedly bring pain and some will bring rewards as well. On a few paths we’ll feel lost. Lost from others. And on other paths and more painfully, we’ll feel lost from ourselves. A path is simply a route, a way to spend the time, to get to the end. No one is exempt from the labor of seeking not just a path along which to travel, but from finding their truest journey. A journey is a path with meaning, with purpose and clarity of mind. A journey is felt when the mind, heart and soul are in alignment - where joy and beauty are effortlessly experienced. A journey is not a straight line, but circular and twisted at times. And some will take but a step in this lifetime. Nonetheless, for many, they must seek out this grand journey, for a simple path is not enough. Our joy and meaning comes from supporting and guiding those lost somewhere on a path. Our purpose feels fulfilled when we nurture another along on their journey.

- Dr. Byron Bloemer, Proprietor

Recommended Resources

“Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” –
John Gottman, Ph.D.
“Getting the Love You Want” – Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
“True Refuge” – Tara Brach, Ph.D.
“Learned Optimism” – Martin Seligman, Ph.D.

Contact Us

1035 W. Glen Oaks Lane
Suite 110
Mequon, Wisconsin 53092
Phone: 262.240.0299

Location & Service Area

1/4 mile north of the Marcus Theatre in Mequon, Wisconsin.

Serving Ozaukee, Milwaukee, Waukesha Counties and the North Shore: Mequon, Cedarburg, Grafton, Port Washington, River Hills, Fox Point, Bayside, Glendale, Brown Deer, Whitefish Bay, Shorewood.

“You cannot step in the same river twice; for it is not the same river, and you are not the same person.” – Heraclitus (adapted).